truth and dare.

"i dare that you still love him."
"i dare that you kiss him now."

if only i could just blog about the weirdest,
yuckiest and scariest thing that i found out
regarding guys i have known,
this blog space will be cool.haha!
but i'm not being cruel here.
i can be yucky too.
sometimes.

some guys are slobs and it is a given fact.
i have accepted the fact that
a slob will usually remain a slob right?
but they can be slowly trained
if you only use the right words and approach like:
honey,can you throw these already and wash your hands after?...
it works.

but the one that bothered me are the
well-mannered guys and the overboard metrosexuals
can also have their share of overboard slob ness.
surprise.surprise.

are all guys the same?
nah, i am being unfair.
it cannot be classified
but some of the things that i have seen
in their drawers well,
some of it cannot be classified.really.
it is like i should be calling the fire department,
the disinfectant team,
or even the bomb squad to fix it.
am i overreacting?hmmm..
fear and amount of grossness is relative.

but all of these thoughts happen for a couple of
seconds while the sound of horns
and alarm are in my head.
and yes,
he will be staring at me
asking if i am alright and if everything is okay.
no it is NOT okay.
but i don't tell them that.
in my head: but you really smell nice
and you have almost perfect manners in public...
why? oh, why???

it has always been THAT truth and the dare
that if you will still be with him
after seeing that yucky collection that he has.
that i have to make a decision fast
if the naked truth will be a deal breaker
or i'll just have to deal with it.
i've dealt with all of it.
as always.
but it's not like i am being cool with it.
no it's not cool.

i accepted it because i love the guy.
hmm...things you do for love.
it has to be love to be still sticking with him
after seeing the crime scene.
believe me.

oh well, i can still love or like a guy in the future
with his humor and mind,
or good looks and good smell.


slob or not.
yucky or not.